How to Tell if She’s Into You – Without Asking

Do you think a girl is into you but don’t want to be presumptuous? Do you want to know if she likes you but are too shy to ask? How do you know if she digs you and wants to go out without asking her directly? Well, here are some signs that a woman is interested.

• She emails or calls you for no compelling reason. You know a girl is crushing on you when you get calls or emails from her even when there’s no reason for her to do so. By that, we mean she’s not just contacting you to ask you to fix her car, to get a loan, or to ask you to paint her kitchen. She’s into you if she emails or calls you just to chat. That’s a sure sign that she’s interested.

• She touches you, ever so subtly. Do you notice her slapping you playfully when you make jokes? Does she fix your tie or undo a button on your shirt to “fix” you up? Do you catch her resting her hand on your shoulder or arm even if it’s just for a few (fast) seconds? This is another sign that she’s into you, dude. Women avoid any physical contact with a man they don’t like. If she’s touching you, go ask her out already.

• She asks you about your childhood and your family. This is a sign that she wants to feel closer to you. If she asks you what your life was like back at home, she really wants to get to know you at a deeper level. Women typically don’t ask these personal questions to random guys they aren’t interested in. So if you are also into her, start to reveal some things about yourself. She will take that as a sign that you trust her, and you can take things to the next level from here.