How to Ask Her Out Without Being Rejected

Do you want to go out on a date with a girl you like but don’t quite know how to approach her? Do you want to ask her out without being rejected? Do you want sure-fire guide on how to make that date happen with zero risk of rejection? Luckily, we’ve been studying women and how they respond to men for years, and we have the perfect foolproof formula for you. Here’s how to get that, “Yes, I would love to go out with you” response.

• Before you come in for the kill, research about her. We’re not saying you should go all psycho and stalk her – just be sure you know a few of the basics. What does she do in her spare time? What kind of music does she like to listen to? What movies does she like? What books does she read? This kind of information can help you in determining the right kind of date to ask her out to – and when you know this, you can ask her out without being rejected. A girl would never say no to something she’s really into. If she likes a particular band, for example, you can ask her to go with you on that band’s concert. If she likes a particular author, why not take her to the book signing?

• Be polite. Never ask her out with a line like “Hey, wanna have some fun tonight?” or something sleazy like that. No self-respecting girl would go out with you if you don’t play it nice. If you want to ask her out without being rejected, then be respectful. If a woman even gets a whiff that you only want sex, she will run the other direction. Show her that you are interested in her, not just her body. This is why it’s important to have a date plan in mind before you even ask her out. Tell her exactly where you are bringing her (casual coffee always works on a first date).

• Phrase your question another way. Instead of saying “Wanna go out to see this movie with me this weekend?” outright, try gauging her interest first. Say, “Have you heard about this movie? What do you think about it?” Let her respond. If she says she wants to see it sometime, then you can ask if she might be interested in watching it with you.